I will call out the following publicly and without explanation if I see it being applied to:
- Any human I am responsible for thru law or agreement
- Any human who has given me consent to speak up for them
- Any human who does not have the voice to speak up for themselves, and is being abused
I will do this with as much love as I can, however I will be firm and direct and will not be open to or explanations.
A: Isomorphing unhealed trauma experiences onto humans who did not cause the issue, and are not acting in a way that justifies the mapping. Its mean and it hurts.
B: Programming Statements “You are ……. “. It takes away someones sovereignty and depth of experience.
C: Unsolicited negative opinions unless asked for them directly. Let us pay professionals for their experience and wisdom.
D: Uneven exchange of resources without being open to renegotiation. We owe you nothing.
E: Jealousy – feeling yucky about something good happening for someone else, that may come at a perceived loss to oneself. It hurts, and it happens to all of us.
F: Non consensual psychoanalysis. I personally pay PhD’s to verify my thought processes are in line with stability and reality.
G: Energetic attacks/hijacking – This is a feeling and it will be called out quick.
H: Words and energies that are conflicting. I will listen to gut, and stop communicating with words.
If you would like to be my ally, I ask that you help me live up to these, applied to myself as equal as to others. I ask if you agree with them, and see where I am shrinking from confrontation you call me out.
If you cannot hold up to these, I ask that you please observe from a distance as I grow in a direction that feels safe, fun and fulfilling for myself and those I love in my little corner of the sandbox 🙂